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Neko - 2005-05-12 18:31:01 ------------------------------- cat - 2005-05-13 01:55:47 Geez Aimee, I'm sorry everything's so crappy. It sounds like a bad case of overwhelmitis...and that NEVER feels good and you know what? Not wanting to go home and face all that shit is a perfectly normal and reasonable response to such a situation. How about for every task you accomplish, you're allowed one night of getting blottoed? A little over the top? Okay...a glass of wine or a can of beer or alcoholic beverage of your choice for every task accomplished. Better? :-) *Hugs* ------------------------------- Carrie - 2005-05-13 13:54:41 Yes, I think a reward system is definitely in order. You deserve utter joy and happiness dear A. And some pampering. Pampering of ones self is always good. Manicure and Pedicure this weekend? ------------------------------- LA - 2005-05-13 17:29:03 Yup. Start chucking stuff, girlie. If your place is anything like mine was I'd recommend starting with actual trash. Newspapers, catalogs, fast food wrappers, empty slurpee cups and anything and everything that's broken. You are never going to fix it. You are never going to 'repurpose' it into a zingy planter with photo storage. Scrap anything which is unusable in its present state. If you haven't fixed it by now then you don't want/need it badly enough to ever fix it. Same deal with clothes. Broken zippers, missing buttons, stains, holes, 'it'll fit again if I lose 20 pounds'...OUT! Throw it out! I am a different person since shedding my debris. I can think again. I'm not a frustrated wreck. Please give it a try. You have nothing to lose but your trash and everything to gain by being rid of it. Much love, ~LA ------------------------------- add your comment: |